Tuesday, May 30, 2023
Tip of the Day....
Saturday, April 8, 2023
Cowgirl Up!
Every year Wickenberg, Arizona, home of the Western Desert Museum (Smithsonian Affiliate Museum), prepares and displays a juried exhibition of Western women artists. The title of these exhibitions is "Cowgirl Up". We've been at least twice, if not three times over the years to the exhibition. It's about an hour's drive from the house, so it's a nice little day trip which we usually take with some friends.
Women artists, no matter their location, are woefully underrepresented in galleries and museums. That's what makes this exhibition so special. It's a chance to see new artists. As always, the pictures are the proof. My favorite is a bronze called "Distant Thunder". It's a 3/4th life sized bronze which is beautifully cast. It shows emotion as well as movement. It depicts a native women who has been out gathering with her young child. She's running to beat the storm - thus the name of the piece.
| "Out Wickenberg Way" |
| "Song of Sunset" |
Now, that you've seen all our our favorites, check out the rest of the pictures:
Friday, March 31, 2023
Lent: Drake's Favorite Season
Easter is on its way. For those of us who observe Lent, that season is coming to an end. (FYI: Lent is the 40 days prior to Easter Sunday.) Since Lent/Easter is my least favorite part of the Christian calendar, and no, you do not want to know the reason why, I pretty much ignored the season and tolerated the hymns, scriptures, etc. for a long time. I just didn't 'get it'.
As a kid, Lent was the time you didn't want to eat dinner at your Catholic friend's. Most likely, there wouldn't be any meat - heretical in meat hearty Oklahoma - and you couldn't count on mac and cheese being served. There were always too many vegetables on a Catholic household dinner table during Lent.
Several years later as a mature adult, I studied more about what the observation of Lent really meant. I found my attitude toward it changing. For me the 40 days of Lent became less about 'giving something up' and more about self reflection. Ironically, the first time got serious about observing Lent, I gave something up: Cigarettes. By the time I finally decided to turn this addiction over to God, I was so secretive about my dirty little habit many people I knew casually were surprised I even smoked. I started smoking when I was 19. I quit many times. I even quit for three years (pregnancy, nursing), and I WENT BACK to smoking. I tried tapering off. I tried nicotine gum. I tried willpower. There's no such thing as one or two cigarettes for me; it's always been all or nothing. It took the 40 days of Lent in 2000 for me to totally stop. And, yes, I still want to smoke, but each day I choose not to. I felt I had 40 days of support, and that support ultimately let me turn my back on the dreadful habit which was killing me.
Often, I find myself using Lent to 'gear myself up' to do something I dread. The big one in this category which comes to mind was nursing a dying friend. Another distasteful task one year was to offer forgiveness to someone who didn't deserve it. That statement is why I spent Lent getting my head in the right mental space and losing the judgment, so I could offer true forgiveness.
Another Lenten observation was also about 'giving up something'. Guess what I gave up for 40 days? Profanity. Now, anyone who really knows me knows how profane my language can be. Nowadays, it's nothing like it was before I gave up profanity for Lent. During that particular Lenten observation, I discovered using profanity was less about temperament and more about habit. I quickly realized it was a habit I neither needed nor wanted. Originally, I used profanity as a way of notifying the male half of the world that I wasn't a sweet 'girl' who could be ignored. Nice 'girls' didn't use profanity. Women did. In the last 50 years, profanity has become habitual language used by almost everyone. I've never liked being everyone, so losing profane language as a habit became my new normal.
One year my Lenten task was not about 'giving up something'; it was about 'giving something'. That Lent was the start of my weekly letter writing. Initially, I wrote to a few people - an elderly person who was tremendously important to me while I was a teen, and a young person who needed adult encouragement, and answering a friend who was writing me. Three letters have morphed into ten to twelve letters each week. What started over Lent one year has become a weekly commitment. My experience has been people are so starved for personal mail, no one wants me to stop writing even when the original reason for the letters has resolved. Unfortunately, my letter writing has affected my blog writing time.
My discovery over the last 20+ years is Lenten observation is really about personal reflection. I think of it as taking stock of who I am and where I am in the spiritual journey of life. Some years it results in a direct 40 day action plan. Other years it can be as simple as a daily reflection or prayer.
This year I decided on doing something novel: I decided to do a specific nice thing for Drake every day of Lent. Aren't I always nice to him? The knee jerk answer was 'yes'; the reality I've discovered over 30 plus days is I can be kinder and more thoughtful. He has loved the attention, and I've learned even a 50+ year marriage can be rejuvenated with a bit of daily mindfulness. I will say Drake has asked for a continuation of Lenten attention. That's another thing I've learned from observing Lent: Once called to do something, it's awfully hard to just suddenly stop.Happy Easter.
Tuesday, March 21, 2023
Texas Rangers Remade for 2023
This blog entry is for all of my Texas Ranger fans who are also readers. Last season was an absolute MISERY, but according to my resident baseball expert:
RANGERS’ EXPECTATIONS ARE RISING FAST
Spring training won and lost records don’t historically correlate with regular season results for a number of well-known reasons. Some teams are so called “set clubs” with most roster spots and roles already known by March 1. These teams mainly focus on getting their players tuned up and minimizing injury risk. Often their established guys work on improvements and adjustments, but are relieved for at least half the game action by youngsters destined for the minor leagues. This scenario mostly applies to the Rangers this year.
All the new Rangers’ high profile starting pitching signed during the off-season has been sparingly used in Cactus League games due to their injury history. Thus, the Rangers have lost several games when their minor league level pitchers coughed up leads in the late innings. This should not concern us as the regular season pitching role patterns will be very different from these meaningless exhibitions games.
The “everyday” position players have shown much to be encouraged about in the Spring Training games. Offensive production has been good by the guys destined for the starting lineup. This includes the rookie Josh Jung whose grasp of the third base position has been widely expected but delayed by injury for over a year. The eye test for Jung suggests a breakout year for him in 2023 and big star status for years to come.
The only position player questions to make the Ranger's roster are bench / utility roles in both the outfield and infield. The Rangers have lots of quality competitors for these spots, so disappointing assignments to AAA, or perhaps a trade or two, should be expected just before the season begins. The challenge here is to capture as much of this talent as possible in AAA for depth in case of injury on the active 26-man roster.
The bullpen composition presents an interesting challenge. The Rangers now have unusual starting pitcher depth resulting from General Manager, Chris Young's off-season moves. There are several starters from last year and young MLB-ready guys who have been pushed aside by the new acquisitions (e.g. Dunning, Otto, Howard, Ragans). This valuable depth will be needed during the season due to inevitable injuries in the starting pitching rotation. Expect a mix of AAA and active roster bullpen assignments to store these assets to open the season. The bullpen will be crowded with these multi-inning “just in case” starters as well as the more traditional one inning flame-throwing specialists.
It does seem to be the case this year that the Rangers have a surplus of talent overflowing the 26-man active roster. Two years of good free agent signings, judicial trades, and continual “organic” young talent development are ready to pay off. Having lots of difficult roster cut decisions are a clear measure of talent depth which, at least on paper, should translate into a much more competitive team this year.
Of course, actual win/loss results also depend on intangibles like team chemistry injuries, and even luck. A fast early start could be a big benefit to a team coming off a miserable season. My opinion is thanks to a confluence of talent, there should be a much more entertaining product on the field this year. Enjoy.
Monday, February 20, 2023
Christmas Adventures in NYC
There's nothing like a Christmas in New York. I had a wonderful time. Of course, it's hard to have a bad time when the main attraction is a four year old and his six month old sister. A big trip highlight was the family trip to Lincoln Center to see "The Nutcracker". It was Cedric's first ballet, and I was amused that he found Act I to be too long with too little dancing - my exact take on the Nutcracker. He was all attention during the second act which is all dancing. It makes me think we might take him to a matinee of one act ballets this coming Spring. He's loved ballet dancing for a couple of years. (Thanks, YouTube.) Ballet is a family interest, so we were all glad his indoctrination went well. This was his first visit to a theater, and it also impressed him.
We were staying in Manhattan this time in the Financial District (the most southern third of the island). I love staying in a hotel, and this one was first class. Plus, location in New York City means, "What is your subway access?" This hotel was just one block from a major hub (Fulton) from which you can catch the A, C, 2, 3, 4, & 5. You can go anywhere in NYC from those subway lines.
Number one on my New York hit list this time was The Whitney. This is a museum of American art founded by Gertrude Whitney, an American socialite with the money of the Vanderbilts and a thirst to buy American art. Initially, the museum resided in her mansion, but recently, a brand new building at the foot of the Hi Line Park was constructed. The major exhibition we were interested in was about Edward Hopper, arguably one of the most famous artists of the second half of the 20th century. Here's my favorite picture from the exhibition
| Sunday Morning - 1930 |
Edward Hopper, and his wife Jo, lived in the same apartment overlooking Washington Park from 1930 until his death in 1967, and her death in 1968. He was the preeminent realist painter of the second half of the 20th century. His wife, also a talented painter, married Hopper in 1924. They had a tempestuous relationship. He was shy and introverted while relying on her. She managed him and his artwork at the cost of her talent. Hopper's paintings are all about New York. He didn't paint the famous buildings. He painted ordinary streets; people in ordinary apartments going about the business of living. He claimed his paintings were the startings of stories, or where the imagination of the viewer begins.
To see more pictures, click on the link: https://photos.app.goo.gl/2xroeN4btdBLgPCk8
New York City missed the snow from the storm that shut down Southwest Airlines, but we certainly got the bitter cold. On our trips across the city, we were tramping around in weather which felt like -5 degrees with 25 mph winds. Even I'm cold at those temps. Brrrr. I thought my ears were going to fall off while waiting for the bus to the Metropolitan Museum of Art. As always, the Met had several outstanding exhibitions. One of my favorite New York traditions is the fantastic tree decorated with Baroque angels and nativity scenes. It's about 50' tall.
| Trompe 'l Oeil painting |
| Georges Braque - "Violin and Palette" - 1909 |
If you want to check out the other pictures of the Mayans, click on the link:
Monday, December 12, 2022
A Real Tale of Christmas
I got an SOS phone call from a close friend who works for CPS (Children Protective Services) yesterday. She told me that in her personal case load there are numerous children who not only do not have toys, but don't even have clothes. Lack of clothing is a very real need I often saw. At the at-risk high school where I taught, I've bought many a warm coat.
Let me share a personal story with you. When I was teaching at-risk teens, it quickly became apparent that the only 'Christmas' a significant percentage of my students would experience would be whatever I could provide inside my classroom and at my school. I was extremely fortunate to have an entire congregation of United Methodists who supported me to the hilt. Whenever they discovered any way they could make the lives of my students better, they always stepped up to the plate. They didn't just donate school supplies, but time, money and food.
That's why to this day I actively support charitable activities that involve food and/or children. Now, the food banks tend to rake in the donations from Thanksgiving to the New Year. The Salvation Army runs 'Angel Trees' in most large shopping areas across the country. Churches prepare food, clothes, and toys for needy families at this time of the year. All those charitable activities don't begin to cover the need.
When I decide to support something monetarily, I'm very diligent about checking out EXACTLY where my donation winds up. I'm not interested in advertising, or administrative costs which dilute the amount of my donation. I'm not interested in sending money overseas when there's so much need here at home. Therefore, I'm personally vouching for my friend, Kathy Conklin, who earned a social services degree long after she was an adult because she wanted to make a difference. She's working as a social worker in a tough environment, with lots of children. She knows which of her children's Christmas will be bleak.
If you are like Drake and I, we seek out worthy causes for charitable giving at this time of the year. If you want to help Kathy provide a Christmas for children, buy an Amazon gift card electronically and send it to her email address: katmom31@yahoo.com. She'll do the shopping. There's no amount too small (or too large).
For those of you who have been reading my blog for a long time, you know I don't ask my readers for money casually, or for causes I can't personally ascertain to be worthwhile. Let your conscience be your guide.
Merry Christmas.
Saturday, December 3, 2022
2022 Thanksgiving Cruise - Mexican Riviera
Drake and I decided upon a Thanksgiving cruise of the Mexican Riviera (the Pacific coast of Mexico) mainly because I did not want to be depressed over the holiday. I knew not spending the holiday in New York would be depressing to me. Best of all, we didn't have to get on an airplane. Getting on an airplane at Thanksgiving is a "just shoot me now" experience. Our week long cruise left out of San Diego which is a six hour drive from Sun City.
We arrived at the exact time of our ship boarding. All went very smoothly. I trotted off to the Spa even before the ship left the dock for a pre-booked massage. It was just what I needed to work out the kinks of the drive. Now, spa time on a cruise ship is great. Unfortunately, it's very expensive. I also learned, via my Sun City therapist, people who provide spa services on a cruise ship are expected to 'push product'. The ship sells its own line of creams and potions, and after a session, you are encouraged (but not browbeaten) to buy some. Plus, booking ANOTHER session gives points to the person providing the service. They have a quota they must meet. Fail a pre-determined number of times to meet your quota, and you are fired. All of these expectations are carefully explained to the person being hired, but none of this is ever explained to a cruise guest.
Normally, I wouldn't go on the cruise we booked simply because there were too many days at sea. (3 out of 7). However, the price was more than right, and we hadn't been to two out of the three ports. The three ports we visited were Cabo San Lucas, Mazatlán, and Puerto Vallarta. There are always surprises on every cruise I've ever taken. On this cruise it was was the time changes. San Diego: Pacific time (one hour change from AZ). Mazatlán: Mountain Time (one hour time change). Puerto Vallarta: Central Time (one hour time change). Then, the time changes reversed as we sailed north from Puerto Vallarta. I have a strongly fixed circadian cycle, and I always struggle with time change. [One of the best things about Arizona is the clock NEVER changes.]
Another somewhat unpleasant surprise was the brevity of the breakfast and lunch time windows. I hate getting up early, and breakfast was a bit too early for me most days especially considering the time changes, but I struggled up each day. Because of the time changes, my stomach wasn't really sure when it was supposed to eat. The dining room was supposed to be 'open dining', but it really wasn't. You needed a reservation for dinner each night.
Mostly, we wound up eating about 8pm. The reason why? The multitude of families from infants to doddering grannies all cruising on Thanksgiving week. It wasn't uncommon to see several tables seating 10 to 20 people even at 8pm. The kitchen still presented food piping hot of the highest quality to every table no matter the size. Drake and I both marveled how toddlers were managing to hold it together to eat at that hour. My expectation was a chorus of unhappy babies and toddlers. Instead of crying children (of which there were none), we heard Mr. Lobster Fork.
My expectation was guests on a cruise ship would at least have some semblance of manners. That was before we got a load of Mr. Lobster Fork. One evening we sat down and were having a lovely dinner when a man seated about 15 feet away from us started harassing the wait staff in a loud angry voice. His first volley at the top of his lungs was: "I WANT MY DINNER, AND I WANT IT NOW!!!" I guess he thought he was eating at Denny's. The family with two elementary school aged children sitting at the next table were mortified. Of the many cruises I've taken, I've never seen anyone behave so badly in the dining room.
Oh, but he wasn't finished. When he and his partner got served, he immediately began yelling for a LOBSTER FORK. His tirade demanding a lobster fork (more yelling on his part) went on for about 10 minutes as he was presented a variety of forks, none of which was to his liking. Here's the irony: You don't use a lobster fork when you are only having the tail of the lobster - the only kind of lobster served in the dining room. The purpose of a lobster fork is to be able to pull lobster meat out of small places on a whole lobster. This rude and brutish man didn't know what a lobster fork is used for, but he certainly wanted one anyway and at the top of his lungs.
As is often so true of the rude, they choose to vent their ire on the lowest level of service people. In this case, it was the waiters and their assistants. He never asked to see the dining room supervisor. He just wanted to throw his weight around. I guess he thought SOMEONE would be impressed with his temper tantrum. From that night on, we were on the lookout for "Mr. Lobster Fork". We didn't want to be seated away from him; we just wanted to greet him with his nickname. 😁
We were careful to pick a cabin that faced the 'land' initially, so we could stand on our balcony and watch the ports come into view. The Cabo port entry was the most dramatic.
| Yes, that's a giant hole in the rocks in the Cabo harbor |
It always seems to be the case on the day the cruise ship uses a 'tender', the sea doesn't cooperate. In the Cabo port, a tender port, there were three foot swells. Doesn't sound like much, but it was a bit nerve wracking to move from the ship to the tender when it was going up and down three feet. You had to time your move to the tender. Old people and young children slowed down the process considerably. By sheer chance we booked a shore excursion through the ship, so we got priority to use the tenders.
The only reason I booked the shore excursion was to see the cathedral at the small town of San Jose del Cabo about 20 miles north of Cabo San Lucas, and to see a glass blowing exhibition. Ever since I saw glass blowing at the Tacoma Glass Museum, I've been hooked. The Cabo glass blowing operation was small compared to the Tacoma Glass furnace, but it was still fascinating. The Mexican artist deftly took a glob of glass from the furnace and quickly blew a small souvenir turtle as we watched. We were also interested to learn they collect all kinds of glass from all the bars and restaurants - think beer bottles and whiskey bottles and glass food containers. There were piles and piles of this type of glass outside the building. The glass blowers recycle all of it into new drinking glasses, bowls, vases, as well as souvenirs.
| Glass blowers furnace |
| First blow with turtle still attached to pipe |
| San Jose del Cabo cathedral |
One of the things we like about the Holland America cruise line is they hire classical musicians to entertain on the 'Lincoln Center Stage'. This time it was a quartet consisting of a piano, a violin, a viola, and a cello. They played various classical pieces for an hour just at cocktail time. I really like being dressed for dinner, having a drink in a comfy chair, and listening to classical music.
Standing in front of the cathedral, we were offered another selection of jewelry from a street vendor. Personally, I like street vendors. There's no telling in Mexico what you may be offered. This was the jewelry vendor's lucky day. I found another modest piece which Drake promptly bought. My favorite vendor of the trip was this guy. I also found a few art deco buildings. On our way to the market, I found a fabric store! Drake went on to buy t-shirts while I used my rusty, rudimentary Spanish to buy six yards of material at $2 a yard.
There's a supersized Sam's Club next to the Walmart. Between the cruise dock and the Walmart is a four lane highway moving at 50 mph every time I checked. Additionally, PV was the only place with noticeable air pollution. I was so depressed by the sight, I didn't even get off the boat except to see the tent vendors on the dock.
